.But what Astrid doesn't understand yet is an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- that has pair of children-- can easily attest to: The reality that your relationship with your moms and dads modifications as well as grows as you each age, and also ideally right. "Your world centers around [your kids] when they are actually infants [and also] it is actually so much job but charming," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you really overlook that, given that after that you can not acquire them to carry out anything you prefer them to carry out, given that they begin establishing their own thoughts, their very own opinions." And also eventually, you end up in the place O'Hara, whose kids reside in their 20s as well as 30s, discovers herself right now, capable to profit from her little ones. "They're simply such amazing younger men," she mentions. "I am actually not their buddy, but I really love possessing discussions with all of them as well as understanding how they deal with lifestyle.".